the problem is that many ppl in relationships think that if they just keeep silent and not say what they r thinking or feeling their relationship will be better off thanif they had said what was on their MIND
while this sound good in theory .. it does not work in reality when we keep our feeling to ourselves it may temporarily keep the peace and keep the relationship going smoothly but in the long run this creates distance, separation, mistrust and dries up passion like aweed in the desert
i think that the best way to tell Ur thoughts and feelings so that the other person can hear is to simply say what is true for U without pointing finger at them
okay tell me now Ur openion Do U agree with me IS SILENCE IS NOT REALLY GOLDEN ? or what ?